We’re in a restaurant. Daughter needs to use the restroom. The ladies’ is occupied.

Solution: “I’ll just disguise myself as a boy” *stuffs long hair under her beanie, grins, walks off*

Wer seine Fotos auf dem eigenen Server hosten möchte und nicht irgendwie in die Hände von Google oder Apple geben möchte, ist mit „Immich“ ganz gut beraten

Hier habe ich eine Anleitung, wie ich das realisiert habe auf meinem Server.

dasnetzundich.de/installation-…

#selfhosted #ImmichApp #docker

An Dreistigkeit nicht zu überbieten: Schlachthofbetreiber verklagt zwei Privatpersonen auf über 140 000 Euro Schadensersatz, weil sie Undercover-Aufnahmen des Todeskampfes von Schweinen in der Gasgondel veröffentlicht haben.#brandlohne verlangt u.a., dass das Videomaterial nicht mehr verwendet wird.

Solidarität zeigen:
17.5.25 Demo in #Lohne
11.6.25 Protestauftakt in #Oldenburg

Rechtshilfe für Anna und Hendrik
www.ariwa.org/spenden/

#tierleidsichtbarmachen #lohne #aktivismusistkeinverbrechen

Mini cozy…

#Caturday #catsofmastodon #Fedicats #blackcat

Denmark has not found it relevant to spend tax payer money on a large military base on Greenland. Instead Denmark gives a yearly grant of 620 million dollars to the 57,000 Greenlanders, which is spent on everything in the Greenland budget including having free healthcare, free access to universities in Denmark AND a well functioning police force.

Vance now abuses that fact to claim that Denmark has not kept Greenland safe, and therefore Greenland should become American.

youtu.be/jaJRLBfdux4?si=MtZJIu…

About a year ago, my parents made the switch to Linux on their home machines because they really hated Win 10... Today I got a call from my mother to help her out with something, but I did not expect that "something" will be figuring out a sed pattern for a shell script she wrote to bulk rename files.

When I asked her why she didn't use some GUI program she said "I was an accountant in the DOS era, this makes more sense to me than a ribbon menu in Excel".

Franzbrötchen am Morgen vertreibt Kummer und Sorgen!

Ein bisschen zumindest. ❤

#mARTch 29
Tanne auf hoher See

Tja, noch gar nicht so lange her, dieses gemütliche Leben als Weihnachtsbaum. 😆

#MonatsMalerei #KleineKunstklasse #MastoArt

Me at ER for cardiac issues

Dr: “Could you be pregnant?”

Me: “No I had a hysterectomy”

Dr: “You look too young for that? Are you sure?”

Me: “I’m confident”

Dr: “I think you might be confused. Maybe it was your appendix.”

Proceeds to order pregnancy test

I’ve had this interaction more times than I can count

Healthcare workers think I’m “too young” to have had a hysterectomy and automatically assume I’m confusing my womb with another organ.

They ask endless questions, only to end up doing a pregnancy test anyways

Perhaps there are patients who confuse their uterus for their appendix, but I would imagine that’s exceedingly rare

The battle I went through to get my hysterectomy was long and arduous. It involved many physicians lecturing me about how I would never be able to have children

Asking insensitive questions like:

“Don’t you want to be a Mom?”

“You might want biological children, many women do”

“What happens if you meet your dream man and he leaves you for being barren?”

You don’t have to endure this type of insulting and misogynistic third degree to get your appendix or gallbladder removed.

They inform you of the surgical risks, you consent, the end.

There’s simply no plausible way to confuse the removal of a WOMB with an appendix

Despite these obvious facts, I’ve had countless doctors assume I’m wrong. That I couldn’t possibly have lost my uterus and it must have been something less important.

I’ve even had “patient CLAIMS hysterectomy”’written in my chart.

Why someone would lie about something so easy to prove or disprove is beyond me.

The end result is always a delay in care while we argue and then wait for an unnecessary pregnancy test which always comes back negative.

Surely we can do better?

I understand that doctors must have a degree of skepticism, and that the price of missing a pregnancy can be incredibly high.

I’m not opposed to them running a pregnancy test if that’s what they feel they need to do.

I am opposed to the delays and gaslighting

It was traumatic to lose my uterus at a young age. The healthcare workers who inundated me with misogynistic questions & put a hypothetical man before me and my health? They didn’t make it any easier.

I feel that trauma all over again whenever I’m questioned about pregnancy

I wish we could endeavour to either TRUST our patient, or just run the pregnancy test without all the unnecessary and (often) rude comments.

I don’t object to the test, I object to the way I’m treated leading up to the test.

Patients know their body best. We know the difference between a womb and an appendix. We know when we’re being talked down to and mistreated.

It causes trauma. Makes us less likely to trust the provider and far less likely to seek care in the future

Please treat your patients with the dignity they deserve. Don’t judge them on how they look, the chronic illness or disability they have or their gender or sexual orientation. Listen to them. Work with them. Let them be a partner in their care.

We can do better together /end
After the hysterectomy I also had a post op complication that was ignored by the ER three times. I had a life threatening internal bleed, but was sent home without tests because they thought I was “exaggerating”.

We MUST listen to patients. I only survived because my accidental advocate stepped up

disabledginger.com/p/my-most-d…

#misogyny #medicalmisogyny #womenshealth #obgyn #ableism #disability #endometriosis #hysterectomy #discrimination #mybodymychoice

My Most Dangerous ER Experience and How My Advocate Saved My Life

A story of medical gaslighting, negligence and neglect that very nearly cost me my life - and how my accidental advocate (untrained and unprepared) saved me.

^{Broadwaybabyto (The Disabled Ginger)}

#Valheim #Moder #LinuxGaming

She's DEAD!!! Woohoo!!!

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Hin und wieder sind wir einfach nur Nackt..// Nackt in unseren Gedanken und Träumen..
#artwork

Jo Grabowski

"These men—human beings with names, histories, dreams—were marched through a gauntlet of armed guards, beaten, stripped naked, shaved, and thrown into overcrowded cells. A photojournalist on the scene described watching men age a decade in two hours. He watched as one young man sobbed, “I’m not a gang member. I’m gay. I’m a barber.” This man was slapped for his tears, beaten for his vulnerability.
No phone calls. No visitors. No books. No talking. Just exile to a place “so cold and far from home they may as well have been sent into space, nameless and forgotten.”

And all of this—every slap, every sob, every stolen dignity—stamped with American approval. Coordinated with American officials. Executed with American efficiency."

#USPolitics
techdirt.com/2025/03/28/what-i…

What Is It, Exactly, That Being An American Means to You?

Is it a flag on your porch? A sense of pride during the national anthem? A particular vision of freedom or prosperity? Perhaps it’s a story you tell yourself about who we are and what we stan…

^Techdirt

Es gibt Bilder, die symbolisch für ihre Zeit stehen:
#KristiNoem vor einer Gefängniszelle in #ElSalvador. Der Kamera zugewandt, am Arm eine Rollex. Hinter ihr, abgetrennt durch Gitter, die Insassen der Zelle, stehend, in die Kamera blickend, mit nacktem Oberkörper, stark tätowiert, leerer Blick, eng an eng.

Das ist Entmenschlichung. Die illegal um ihre Freiheit beraubten Männer werden wie wilde Tiere zur Schau gestellt, politisch missbraucht und nun auch ihrer Individualität beraubt.

"Ihre neue Fernsehserie handelt also von einer Studentin, die sich so sehr langweilt, dass sie wochenends bei einem Autobauer anheuert?"

"Ja, nach meinem Orchesterkrimi 'Notruf Harfenkante' wollte ich etwas neues probieren. Und ich denke es ist mir gelungen mit..."

"Sagen. Sie. Es. Nicht."

"...Ford ist ihr Hobby"

<Handgemenge>

Anlässlich des Tags der offenen Hackerspaces: Checkt danach eire Bällebäder!

Walldorf: Dreijähriger wird vermisst – und im Bällebad gefunden - DER SPIEGEL
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Große Aufregung in Walldorf: Dreijähriger wird vermisst – und im Bällebad gefunden

Ein vermisstes Kleinkind löste in Walldorf einen Großeinsatz der Polizei aus. Doch die Suche nahm eine unerwartete Wendung: Der Dreijährige tauchte wohlbehalten wieder auf. Daheim.

^{DER SPIEGEL}

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